Right now, I am focused on taking care of myself - health, food, choices.
What I think is most misunderstood about being a single man is that it is not always arrived at by choice.
Man 14 (M14) is 33 years old. Not long ago he moved back to Kansas City for a relationship. An, at times long distance relationship he had been in for six years. That relationship came to an end for, in my opinion, what amounts to a very honest reason.
They were in different places.
They saw the path forward differently.
Ultimately, the choice was made to be honest with themselves and each other.
They admitted that they did not want the same thing at the same time and maybe they never would.
So often couples can't see the relationship forest for the trees. Not the case here. I'm sure it was a difficult decision. Kudos to them for coming to terms with where they were at.
